The Why-Askers · Big Feelings, First Friendships

Strictly No Elephants

A teacher’s look at why this book belongs in the The Why-Askers stage.

Cover of Strictly No Elephants
by Lisa Mantchev · Paula Wiseman Books (Simon & Schuster)

Why it fits The Why-Askers (for preschoolers whose every page sparks a question)

A boy and his tiny elephant are turned away from the pet club, so they start their own. Inclusion becomes a plot, not a moral tacked on. The door that says everyone welcome is built by kids.

What makes it special

The excluded don't beg to join; they build a better club — a plot structure with a spine. Taeeun Yoo's linocut-soft illustrations give the tiny elephant real dignity. Its closing rule, 'everyone welcome,' is written by the children themselves, which is how inclusion actually sticks.

From the publisher

A boy is excluded from joining his friends' pet club because of his unusual…

About Lisa Mantchev

Lisa Mantchev writes whimsical picture books and young-adult fantasy from Washington State; Strictly No Elephants, her picture-book debut, was embraced by educators worldwide as the gentlest available lesson on inclusion.

Also by this author: Someday, Narwhal · Remarkables

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